Binah Magazine -The Road To Lechu V’Nelcha

Binah Magazine -The Road To Lechu V’Nelcha

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People have a misconception of what the Lechu V’Nelcha program is. I have heard people say that it is a place for girls who are not married and have no place to go. This is absolutely wrong. It is a  sophisticated learning program for girls who are out of school in order to stay connected to their roots and to Torah. We have workshops and shiurim; there is an open exchange between lecturer and students, and camaraderie among the girls. Harav Mattisyahu Salomon, shlita, greatly encouraged me to develop and promote this program. He was adamant that girls have to continue learning after graduation, saying, “Once a girl finishes school, it’s not over.”

Girls leaving school have a lot of pressures, without the security and Torah environment they had in school to keep them rooted and connected. Many go to college in order to secure a parnassah, which presents unanticipated challenges and temptations. Their social circle changes, their friends change, their whole environment changes. The same holds true for girls who go to work.

So there is a tremendous gap between the two worlds. Lechu V’Nelcha bridges that gap for a girl, to keep her close to herself, to her roots, her whole chinuch. Yes, some say you can listen to shiurim or read books, but nothing compares to sitting together and learning with girls who share the same values and goals. It is a continuation of the benefits of school, but without the tests. The girls come to Lechu V’Nelcha just like they go to a seminary; there is a warm vibe and the girls are proud that they belong to a special group of elite girls. Wherever they go in the world, they can find Lechu V’Nelcha girls to connect with.

There is no age limit or academic requirements. Girls come from Boro Park, Manhattan, Monsey, Monroe, Williamsburg, Flatbush, Rhode Island, Baltimore, etc. The only requirement is a commitment to Torah values and standards; our girls are serious girls who are interested in growing and learning. I am indebted to their parents for entrusting me with their daughters and to the girls for their insightful questions that add so much to the program.

I was fortunate to get the haskomos of Hagaon Harav Chaim Kanievsky, shlita; Harav Mattisyahu Salomon, shlita; Harav Elya Ber Wachtfogel, shlita, and l’havdil bein chaim l’chaim, Harav Aharon Leib Shteinman, zt”l.

We just had a huge event in the Tamir with close to 1,000 girls from all the seminaries in Eretz Yisrael to make them aware of what is available to them after they finish seminary. The response was overwhelming. It is heartwarming to see the enthusiasm. It’s basically an Open House to introduce the program for the girls leaving Eretz Yisrael, and to  give  them  the  opportunity to sign up in their  area  for  when they are back home in September. In   the words of the girls: “It is much easier to leave sem!”

 

25th LVN Shabbaton!!

25th LVN Shabbaton!!

Come and join us for a Shabbos of your lifetime! – Another Shabbaton in the Lechu V’Nelcha spirit, packed with noted mechanchos and esteemed personalities, led by Rebbetzin Dinah Fink.

Rabbi Todros Miller, the key-note speaker throughout the Shabbos, is a world-renowned marbitz Torah from Gateshead, legendary for his shiurim that have a distinctive blend of depth and clarity. He combines challenging questions, stories and British humor and leaves the listener awed, inspired and enriched with an enhanced Torah perspective.

Workshops and shiurim will also be given by the many other noted speakers and mentors. In addition, all these superb speakers will make themselves available throughout the Shabbos for informal conversations in small groups or one-on-one, a rare chance for everyone to ask for objective advice and guidance from those who can impart words of wisdom based on a firm foundation of Torah knowledge.

Come rejuvenate and reconnect this Shabbos in an atmosphere of warm camaraderie and intellectual  stimulation. Be a part of the unparalleled spiritual energy that is synonymous with a Lechu V’nelcha Shabbaton, whose effects will stay with you for months to come.

Shabbos Parshas Bechukosai
May 31 -June 2
Hudson Valley Resort

WORLD CLASS SPEAKERS!
MEET GIRLS FROM ALL OVER!
GOURMET CUISINE!
EXCITING MOTZEI SHABBOS PROGRAM!
MAGNIFICENT LOCATION!
A SHABBOS NOT TO BE MISSED!

For more information and an application call,  848-245-4032 / 917-530-0660 / 347-977-6699  or email: lvnshabbaton@gmail.com

We look forward to meeting you!

LVN Inter-Seminary Event in Yerushalayim!

LVN Inter-Seminary Event in Yerushalayim!

The large hall feels cavernous. The last volunteer straightens a sign-up sheet on one of the chairs and sweeps the room with a backwards glance. And then she is gone. There is silence in the enormous room. One thousand chairs perfectly aligned. There are water bottles and a jumbo chocolate chip cookies neatly positioned on each seat. The camera is fine tuned, focused on an empty podium. Two immense screens are black, waiting. The technicians, with a few minutes to spare, have left to take a much needed break. The air is thick with expectancy, the clock ticks and every second brings the opening time closer.

And then it is 7:30, and there is a buzzing sound coming from the entrance.  The large doors to the vast halls are thrown open and the girls pour in. There is no steady trickle; it is like a dam breaking, a  wave unleashed, and chattering, enthusiastic, excited seminary girls flood the halls. There are hugs as girls meet their friends, there is quiet laughter and a palpable sense of energy. By 7:45 the hall is full.  By 8:00 it is bursting and girls fill every available space. The hall darkens and a hush settles over the hall. May 13, ches Iyar, 5779, and the inaugural Lechu V’Nelcha Inter-Seminary Event has begun.

Havav Mattisyahu Salamon’s penetrating eyes gaze at the crowd from the large screens. His words are welcoming, encouraging, demanding the girls’ continued growth. He speaks about the vital necessity of joining Lechu V’Nelcha and its sacred mission. He details the girls’ journey, having been raised in a Bais Yaakov environment and now moving onward, and the urgent need to be part of a movement that will maintain their commitment to the fundamentals of Yiddishkeit and encourage them forward in this new chapter of their lives. His divrei bracha envelop the audience.

The video presentation continues and those assembled view girls from cities throughout the world who have joined Lechu V’Nelcha , with its weekly shiurim, events and summer retreats, and the impact it has had on their lives.

And then Rebbetzin Dinah Fink, the founder and driving force of Lechu V’Nelcha ascends the stage and all eyes are upon her. She warmly welcomes the girls and in her inimitable style, shares the challenges that many graduates face. She speaks from the heart, having seen first hand the downward spiral that ensnares many girls who remain unmoored and without guidance or mentors. She implores the girls to sustain the spark that has been ignited during this wonderous seminary year and carry the inspiration forward by being a part of Lechu V’Nelcha and its continuous learning programs. She then introduces RabbiTodros Miller, who has flown in from Gateshead, especially, as the keynote speaker.

Rabbi Miller is a masterful orator, who keeps the girls spellbound with his comparison of the nine months of seminary to the nine months of pregnancy and its potential for growth. He contrasts chadashim– renewal and expansion, with shanim  and its symbol of stagnation and sameness, and posits that the task of each and every one of us is LECHU- to move onward and upward. In Yiddishkeit, there is no such thing as remaining the same.  We are either moving upwards, actualizing our ultimate potential and growing, or we are on a dangerous descent into a frightening abyss. He urges the girls not to remain complacent, but to follow in the footsteps of Avraham Avinu, the first one to be tasked with ‘lechu’, with the command of ‘Lech Lecha‘. There are girls in the audience who are copiously taking notes in their spirals, others are scribbling on the backs of loose paper, some, eyes like saucers, are just absorbing the inspiration- all are captivated. As Rabbi Miller wraps up his shiur, there is thunderous applause and 1400 girls rise to their feet for kvod haTorah.

The lights dim and the sand art presentation begins. As the talented artist delicately sprinkles sand and moves her hands in ballet-like motion, the narration comes to life. It is a familiar story, similar to many, of a young, fresh-faced seminary graduate, starry eyed, spinning dreams of the not-so-distant future. She has spent a wonderous, magical year in Eretz Yisrael, and envisions her next chapter in life unfolding. And then she lands back home. Hard. The challenges she faces, the hardships she endures, the perils and pitfalls of real life without the comforting cocoon of Bais Yaakov are painted in sound and sand. There is absolute stillness in the room. Girls are sitting on the edge of their seats and some stand to get a better vantage point of the stage. As the narrator describes the absolute relief of joining Lechu V’Nelcha, and having a place to share her experiences with like-minded girls, there is a palpable release of tension in the audience as well. As the sand artist deftly swirls the sand for the final time, the girls rise to their feet spontaneously. There are gasps of delight as the crowning image emerges. There is sustained clapping and there is a magical energy in the air.

The evening is drawing to a close, but there is one final surprise. Mrs. Tammy Karmel, a young mother battling ALS, and whose strength of character and indomitable spirit has touched the lives of so many, has arrived with a pre-recorded message for the girls. As her wheelchair is slowly wheeled to the front of the hall, the girls erupt in impromptu singing and their voices swell louder and louder. As Tammy’s message is played on the screen, it is both heartbreaking and heartwarming. She likens her oxygen dependency to the life-giving force of sustained, committed growth and the imperative to join Lechu V’Nelcha.

Although the program is officially over, and the main lights are switched on, the girls are in no rush to leave. There is soulful singing, and as over a thousand girls link arms and sway to the refrain of an age-old song, there is inspiration and hope intertwined in the melody. The evening has surpassed the wildest dreams of the coordinators. It has been moving, mesmerizing, magical. The girls fill out their Lechu V’Nelcha sign-up sheets and place them in designated boxes. With a spring in their step and a last goodbye, they are gone.

The hall is empty again. Crumpled papers and the detritus of a packed audience are all that is left. The chairs are a jumble, and the cleanup will soon begin. But the air! The mood! The magic! That still lingers in the atmosphere and in the hearts of every girl who has been a part of something greater than themselves.

Baila Ellinson

 

3rd Shabbaton In Australia!

3rd Shabbaton In Australia!

The Lechu V’Nelcha girls in Australia have just returned from a Shabbaton of their lifetime! A 3-day retreat in Emerald, Melbourne, directed by our extremely devoted Mrs. Dassy Ernst who gladly did whatever she could in order to make this dream a reality, and baruch Hashem all her efforts and hard work bore fruit-it was a success in every way! The highlight of the Shabbaton was of course having Rebbetzin Fink flown in all the way from New York to lend her trademark warmth and words of stimulating inspiration which the girls will hold on to for months to come….. The 25Shabbaton members rejuvenated and reconnected in an atmosphere of warm camaraderie and intellectual stimulation and were a part of the unparalleled spiritual energy that is synonymous with a Lechu V’Nelcha Shabbaton.

An Australian LVN member writes: ”There are really no words that can adequately portray the feelings and emotions as you walk out of a Lechu Venelcha Shabbaton but I’ll try to do some justice to the incredible experience that I just went through. Between the personal welcome packages, special accommodations and scrumptious food, our gashmiyus was all taken care of, though it was totally unparalleled to the ruchniyus at Shabbaton. Rebbetzin Fink began the Friday night welcome with a bang by introducing us to novel and innovative concepts, sparking discussion and much thought. We were taught new ideas over Shabbos, such as the difference between ahavah and yirah, exercising our bechirah and how to respond when given a compliment. The high that we felt throughout every speech was unreal and the achdus and warmth by the meals created an atmosphere of acceptance and growth. The messages from the Shabbaton will stay with me and I am forever grateful to those involved with the preparation and organisation. A huge thank you to Rebbetzin Fink for all the effort that she put into the Shabbaton and for setting the tone and making us feel so welcome!”

 

+ Click here to read about the 1st Shabbaton in Australia
+ Click here to read about the 20th LVN Shabbos of Inspiration in America
+ Click here to read about the 19th LVN Shabbos of Inspiration in America

7th Shabbaton In Eretz Yisrael!!

7th Shabbaton In Eretz Yisrael!!

A LVN Shabbaton in Eretz Yisrael! What could be more exhilarating, more uplifting, for LVN post-seminary girls than joining together to spend Shabbos in the Palace of the King? Mrs. Mark, the exceptional and esteemed director of the LVN Yerushalayim branch found the ideal location in Arad to host the 7th Shabbaton with her Lechu V’Nelcha members!

Last Shabbos, over 35 girls came from all over Yerushalayim to Arad, an idyllic setting for what proved to be an extraordinary experience. Graced with the presence of Rebbetzin Dinah Fink, who had flown in from the U.S. to lend her trademark warmth and words of stimulating inspiration, the group took part in a Shabbaton that they will reminisce about long after the winter has drawn to a close.

As one mother of a Yerushalayim LVN participant put it, “My daughter lives for her Lechu V’Nelcha, it gives her so much! It’s something that really enriches her whole life. Between the speakers, the activities, and the Shabbatons, she feels like she’s found a new family! Friends that are so Torah-oriented and so positive. She comes back from the shiurim and especially the Shabbatons really inspired. She wants everyone to go there and she tries to spread the word.”

 

+ Click here to read about the 5th Shabbaton in Eretz Yisrael
+ Click here to read about the 4th Shabbaton in Eretz Yisrael
+ Read About the 2nd LVN Shabbaton in Eretz Yisrael!
+ Read About the 1st LVN Shabbaton in Eretz Yisrael!